So what's it like living in Thailand? Well, it's different than living in Canada, and it's the same. My son and I are living in a little two bedroom house, with a front verandha, front room, kitchen area, bathroom, and even a resident dog, so that experience is similar to what we have at home. But.... then there are the differences. The floors are all tiles. Makes sense in this climate, I would hate to see what would happen to carpet here with all the humidity, but it's not what we are used to. The bathroom is as we experienced when we travelled in Cambodia and Vietnam, all in one piece,with the movable shower head, toilet, and sink all in one undivided room, with the handy dandy squeegy for drying off the floor after one showers. The kitchen area is large, and we have a refrigerator, which is wonderful and I am not sure if everyone here does, but there are no cooking facilities, which is very strange for us. So the basic living experience, although similar in that we are in a house, like at home, is also different. Enough certainly to be somewhat unsettling at first, and to require some adaptation, but also, once one gets moving on it, to be somewhat exciting.
The experience of going about one's daily life is also similar, but different. For one, most people appear to go out for their meals, which, fortunately for my son and I, is a much less costly undertaking here than it is back home, with a fully satisfying dinner for the two of us running around the equivalent of $7 Canadian. If I were to stay here long enough I would perhaps forget how to cook! Luxurious as it may sound, the eating out experience is one of the experiences I am finding hardest to adapt to. I like my quiet times, and dinner time back home is one of those times for me. I enjoy being able to retreat into my kitchen at the end of my day, putter around with my stuff, and then sit down to a leisurely meal in the comfort and privacy of my home. This is not possible here. But we are adapting. We are substituting a quiet leisurely breakfast for our dinners, as well as a peanut butter sandwich lunch at home for many lunches, and although it is not the same, perhaps this is helping.
Many other aspects of going about our daily lives are also similar, but different. The requirements for living are still the same... we still need to get up in the mornings, eat breakfast, go to "work", do my son's school, have dinner, go to bed. The house still needs to be cleaned, laundry done, groceries purchased. But how these things are accomplished is all slightly different. Just enough so that we feel slightly off balance. We're still having yogurt at breakfast, but it's a different flavour. We aren't having our usual eggs, we're substituting with bread with nutella, which I was very happy to find here, especially since it is even considerably cheaper than it is at home! We also have fruit with our breakfast, just like at home, but again, it's different fruit. We often have apples at home, but the apples here are different, and seem to taste more like cucumbers than what we identify as apples, and I haven't even seen any strawberries or raspberries, so we've switched to bananas, which I am happy to say are far tastier than the bananas we get at home and as a result a more than suitable replacement for our apples. Cleaning is also very different. At home, we vacuum. Here, they sweep. With these wonderful brooms which work far better than any I have encountered back home. But this sweeping needs to be done daily. And the things that get swept up are somewhat different than what gets picked up off the floor back home, notably in the inclusion of bug carcasses. I have not yet inquired as to why, or how, we get so many bug carcasses, I'm just rather glad they are carcasses rather than the live ones. Although we've had a few of those too.... a couple of scorpions, several millipedes, one smallish for here (about 1" across) spider, and one huge spider that just appeared in the middle of our floor one evening. Sweeping appears to be a daily activity everywhere, including at the schools. At both schools I have seen the children out sweeping the dirt and the walkways before classes start, and when we went to visit a local waterfall I could swear that dirt pathway had broom stroke marks on it. I think this is because of all the leaves that fall. Whatever the reason, it does make everything appear neat and tidy.
Food storage is also vastly different here than back home. Back home I am accustomed to having a rather large supply of food stored within my house in various forms.... frozen meat in the freezer, dried goods in the pantry, canned goods, fruits and vegetables that will do me for a week, at least, milk, yogurt, juices.... large quantities designed to last me for a long time. Here, well, you aren't storing anything outside of a well sealed container or the fridge, the ants will get to it. And that means you'd better have your garbage sealed as well.... no large garbage cans inside the house here! So... people appear to tend to get food as they need it, whether for their home or for eating, and that's really how our place is set up too. So I am making way more frequent shopping trips here than I do back home. Thankfully we do have a fridge, so I am able to keep some things on hand, like cold drinks and yogurt for breakfast, and I have a safe storage place for my fruits and comfort foods like oreo cookies.
Getting supplies, including food, is also different than back home. It appears as though pretty much everything is available from the many store fronts which line the street, or the three-wheeled carts which come and go along the sides of the streets in front of the shop fronts, which carts seem to come in the greatest numbers around mealtimes. The streetside shops sell huge varieties of items, from sandals to shirts to bags to electronics to pastries to sweets to fruits and then meals. The three wheeled carts seem to be restricted to food items, generally. And there is a nice air-conditioned 7-11 which I believe even has slurpees. It is a very different experience shopping from these little stores than shopping back home, it is a much more leisurely activity here, which can actually be somewhat unsettling when one is going out for what would typically be a focused "get groceries" type of trip. The existence of a small grocery store towards the edge of town does make it a little easier, adjustment wise, on those of us new to town, at least for food and personal items. The grocery store setup is a much more familiar environment, with an in/out experience more like what we are accustomed to in our pursuit of food items back home. And they have some of our home foods, like peanut butter and Oreo cookies!, right there, easily accessible. The cookies are even reasonably priced, although we are paying a premium for the peanut butter.
And there's so much else... garbage disposal... this is done via bins placed along side of the road, certainly I wouldn't want to keep food garbage unsealed in my house, that would be like an invitation for those ants that seem to magically appear as soon as I even think of opening the peanut butter! And water... this is from big jugs of drinking water. And vehicles... we're driving a moped instead of a large enclosed vehicle. And we drive on the left. And traffic rules are quite different. And women don't go swimming on the beach in bathing suits. And there are way more birds (which is wonderful), and butterflies (also wonderful). We now shower at night, to get rid of the sunscreen and to cool off, instead of the mornings. And we aren't having baths, there is no bathtub. The washing machine (which I am oh so happy to have because being able to easily do one's laundry at one's residence is oh so convenient) empties into a big drainage spot inside the house, which somewhat alarmed my son the first time as he thought something was broken! And we're sleeping under mosquito nets. And we have been told to hang our clothes instead of keep them in our suitcases, so they don't go moldy (moldy! we're from Calgary, nothing goes moldy there!). Wow. Unsettling, yes. At first. But also exciting. It is so neat to see how, even with all that is different, so much is still the same. We're all people, and we all have the same things to do... eat, work, socialize, rest. We just do it in slightly different ways. And learning about this is, well, exciting.